Why can't you open a SNAD complaint?

The problem with buying items from International sellers is...

if there is a problem the cost of returning the item with tracking usually exceeds the items price.

You are not the first person to come to the boards about a wedding dress purchased from an International Chinese seller, nor will you be the last. Some report that the item took forever to arrive, others complained that the size was not the size they ordered.

If you funded your purchase using a credit card through Paypal, I suggest you call the number on the back of the card and inquire about a chargeback.

If that is not an option...

I would suggest you find a competent seamstress to see if they can let the dress out enough for you to use.OH Yes!.....Not me, but many others have! Buy a wedding dress from China is not a good idea.

I'm so sorry that you lost all your money. You should have open a case as soon as you received it. You would have paid, dearly, to ship it back with tracking. PLEASE read about ebays' Money Back Garrenty/ buyer protection.

Sellers must get a product to a buyer within a certain time frame and buyers must handle issues with sellers, right away. Questions need to be asked before bidding or BINs.

Too bad you didn't come here to the AC to ask if it's a good idea to buy from there. Every savvy responder would have said 'NO. It is NOT a good idea'.

Call ebay, explain the dilema. They won't help you but if you try over and over again, as in the squeaky wheel gets greased, maybe on an extreme slight chance, some rep will help you. Highly doubtful. If your paypal is backed by a CC, try calling your CC company, explain and see if they'd allow a chargeback. It makes me sick to hear these sort of stories about China sellers.